What Ya Doing, Baby?

Playing Tea

As soon as I started to set the table, Andi came running to help. She found the punch cups, climbed up into the chair, and said "sit" and "eat."

I treasured the time with our sweet girl.

It gets better! As soon as Andy came home, she took his hand to lead him to the dinning room to "sit" and "eat" -- Daddy and his girl:)

Boards and Blogs

Oh what a fun Thanksgiving last year was. To ponder on our little girl. To look at her face over and over..

I spent a lot of time searching for information about her SWI (Social Welfare Institute). I became a member of the Yahoo group for her orphanage. I could see photos of the buildings and of kids that had been adopted from the same place.

I researched the area. I even tried to Google Earth the SWI but could not really find it.

Through the searching on the internet (really God provided) a connection of another family that had received a referral on Thanksgiving day for a little girl from the same orphanage. Because of their paperwork being further along, it looked like they would travel before us. Oh, someone would possibly get to see our baby and give us updates and photos prior to us traveling. Wow---such a small world--
God is in the details!! so cool..

Then there was the forum for adopting families on our agency website that really was a gift to me. Some precious friends for life and eternity have been made thru the boards. I started following their blogs. I really was able to know about the steps in the adoption and the China trip via these blogs!!

This week last year

With finally receiving a referral, it brought on some really in depth heart to heart conversations with Andy. It was real now-- A photo of a sweet little orphan girl--that would be ours..

I cried asking Andy to go over to China to get her for us. It would be hard to leave someone in charge of 4 boys while we both were all the way across the world. We didn't have family to keep them. So I felt like I should stay here while he goes-- especially since he could take care of her medical needs and he is a super loving father...He would do great..

I really, really do not like to fly. I really, really do not like leaving the boys for so long. I get really stressed out going on vacation at a beach in our own town--much less a trip to China. It made perfect sense for Andy to go. He travels all the time for business. My experience in flying is that I get stopped in our local airport for not taking my phone out my pocket!!

The actually trip was so sweet because I saw how God's hand was in all the details. I did not have to fret. God was in charge. He was making the way. So really this was me wrestling with God--would He provide for me or would I have to act like an orphan and do it on my own. Wow---God blew me away with his goodness and mercy and kindness and pursuit of me during this trip!! I still like to "sit" in remembering His goodness to me with the details of this adoption of our precious girl.

God pressed into my heart more and more of what it means for me to be adopted into His family. That I did nothing for Him to want to pick me--nothing---worse yet, I was full of sin and sin against the God Almighty. But He chose me when I was still in my sin. I can call him Papa God and come boldly before His throne because of my older brother, Jesus!

That I was no longer an orphan--that He would pursue me--run after me over and over because my heart is prone to wander... How can that be? that I would wander even after He so clearly demonstrated His great Love for me. If I were a writer I could write a beautiful book of the great things He did and is still doing for me, but I have to ponder them in my heart because writing is not my gift.

This time last year

The list from china came out during our Sunday night since they are twelve hours ahead so I was anxiously waiting for the "call" monday morning from our adoption agency (which is on pacific time). So really the call shouldn't come until after 12 noon, but the director of the china program called me around 11am. She said she felt like she had a file that might be our little girl---that the referral photo showed lots of personality. She read the file over the phone for me then sent it via email. I asked her not to send the photo because I knew I couldn't be objective about her medical needs (meaning would her special needs be something our family could handle)if I saw a photo. She said she would attach it at the end of the email if I changed my mind.

Of course, I couldn't wait to see her photo---done deal. She looked like our baby. The boys even said she looked like a Godwin boy. To see your baby for the first time is amazing joy. She was perfect!!

I called and emailed andy for him to review the file. It was a crazy hectic busy day for him at work. The panic of how to get the doctors to review the file quickly during Thanksgiving week began. But God opened doors of some very compassionate doctors that said they could provide the surgery she needed, if surgery was needed.

We only had 48 hours to submit our letter of intent.

We submitted our LOI on Wednesday prior to rushing out the door to travel to SC for Thanksgiving. We did request follow up medical info from her orphanage--sometimes the translation of a Chinese medical chart can not be so clear. Andy being the physician knew way too much of how quickly a heart problem can be dangerous to her health even prior to us bringing her home. But I was ready for her no matter how serious---felt peace knowing Andi was ours. I was praying for andy's heart to softened to this child no matter what the heart defects were--but still wanted him to get all the advice from all his doctor friends so we would be prepared medically or better yet for them to tell him they would go for her!!

Look No Hands

John took Andi on a wagon ride. She loves to live on the wild side---no hands!!

Gamecock Girl

Andi has known to be a Gator Girl, Tiger Girl and now a Gamecock Girl thanks to Aunt Eva..

Wonder what she will wear for the USC vs Clemson game?

First Zoo Trip

I took Andi and John to the zoo today. Beautiful weather and lots of active animals. Fun!

Just Precious

The Cooking Girl

Andi loves to cook. She prepares the table then says:

"Sit"

"Eat"

"Yummy"

"More"

It is such much fun to watch her pretend in this way--happy, imaginative little girl. One difference between our boys and our girl---she likes to use napkins!!

We met our little girl 6 months ago:)

Andi was so scared when we first met. She had Ritz crackers in her mouth and did no swallow them for a long time. Looking back on these photos, I can see how painful this day was for her. It makes my heart ache.
She can still have the face full of sadness still to this day. I wish I could wipe away all the pain for her, but this is her story. But her story is wrapped in God's story of redeeming hearts for himself!! That is joy..

Andi's 2nd Birthday

Sunday was Andi's birthday. She practiced for two days on how to blow out candles but when it came time--she froze! Friends that have prayed and loved on her were here to celebrate. She was content to pull out the paper from the gift bags.

Words can't describe the thankfulness that my heart feels to have Andi with us for her birthday. But the sadness that she was without her family for 18 months can not be described either.
Joy and sadness mingled. Sounds like the Gospel.

Fall

Summer

Summer is here. We are having a blast having Andi home with us. She loves the water--ocean or pool. She wants to do whatever the boys are doing---kayaking, climbing a tree, boogie boarding, skateboarding!! She is amazing..

We made our first long distance trip for Cousin's graduation. She cried a good bit during the drive:(

We have made another long distance trip---She did great this time:)

She has just started trying to say "I love you" back to us:) So sweet, so soft, so gentle...

Andi, also, is rubbing the boys' back whenever they are hurt or need loving.. She is loving us back!! She is opening up her heart...

Andy and I had to leave Andi and the boys home with a friend all day when I had a trip to the ED for kidney stones. She did great while we were gone... But one of the sweetest moments occurred when we came back home..
Her face just lit up when Andy walked in the door.. Then when she saw me her smile was huge!!
She kept saying and pointing to me "MaMa, MaMa". She was so happy that we came back.. She wanted our friends to know I was her "MaMa" and I had come back for her.

Good Times

The Z's

The Z's are the real deal!! The parents are our dear friends and the boys are the best of friends!! More friends for a lifetime. They, too, live in SC and we miss them, too.
Hopefully, the girls will be good friends, too. The oldest Z is a Clemson grad--she didn't make this trip...

Clemson Tiger Fan She Is

Yep, she is a Tiger fan thanks to the Browns.. If she goes to Clemson and meets friends like the Browns then it is worth out of state tuition!! The Browns are friends for a lifetime. You want your kids to make friends with people like the Browns..

We love you...and miss you terribly!!